You never get a second chance to make a first impression. True for anytime, but cam girls can be a good way to practice making that impression. Making the right one will put you both in the right mindset to have the best session you can. While each person has their own likes and dislikes, there are a few rules of thumb that will work with most performers. If you mess it up, though, there’s no need to stress. There are plenty of performers out there, and next time you’ll have a chance to make another first impression.
Get Down to Business
A cam girl’s time on the job is just that: working time. Of course, it’s not a situation where they punch in at nine and out at five knowing they’ll get eight hours of pay. Most performers are just paid for the time they spend with customers. That makes the time between customers important to manage. Whether they’re chatting with new customers or taking a break, it’s time that isn’t contributing to how much they need to make. So, when you’re chatting with a performer for free, don’t drag it out. You both know what you’re here for. It’s fine to spend a little time getting to know if she’s a performer for you, laying out likes and specialties. If she is, start the session. If she’s not, excuse yourself. There’s another performer out there who suits your needs. Either way, she will appreciate that you respect her time.
If you can’t talk about what you want, she can’t read your mind. Sometimes, the nerves just come from talking to a beautiful woman. That’s perfectly natural. Sometimes, joining a group chat can help ease the nerves. While your comments will still get attention, there isn’t the pressure that is present when talking one-on-one. When you’re ready to move to those private sessions, though, put your trust in their professional hands. They’re plenty experienced getting people out of their shell. To do so, though, you have to take the first step. Once you’re connected with a private cam girl, greet them and lay out what you want. She’s had experience with this conversation, and will know if she’s the performer for you.
Performers of all types feed off of audience energy, and cam girls are no exception. Being a responsive and excited audience will give her a boost of energy that makes the performance even better. This starts with your first interaction. Greet her politely, as you should do with any other person. If she’s beautiful, let her know that. Limit it to only a statement or two, though. Coming on too strong will be a turn off. If you’re camming to relieve stress, it’s okay to let her know you’re having a bad day, but don’t go into details. She isn’t your therapist, just leave it to the facts that are relevant to the session. She can make bad days better, but spending a long time on your problems will drag down the session.