How to Talk About Kinky Special Requests with a Cam Girl

If you’re into stuff that’s a little out of the norm, how can you get a cam girl to play along? Sure, you could look specifically for fetish cam sites, but sometimes that’s not what you want, or you like the look and style of a specific girl. In those cases, you’re going to need to bring up your kink with her. Here’s some tips for bringing it up in a way that gives you the best chance of getting what you want without paying through the nose.

Be Nice

The customer is always right? Sure, but remember that you’re asking for something she doesn’t usually sell. Cam girls talk to a lot of guys who are rude, nasty or just plain creepy. Making it clear to her that you’re not one of them can go a long way towards making her OK with your special request. Be polite and friendly, and skip the dirty talk when you’re making the request. Having a good relationship with her to begin with – like being a fair tipper and a regular viewer – boosts your odds too.

Expect to Pay Extra

This one goes double if the scene you’re asking for is going to be one she’ll have to buy extra props for. You’re asking for something special, and you are going to need to tip a little higher or pay a little more to make it worth her while. One of the fastest ways to get a “no” to your special request is to expect her to do it for free, or for the same cost that you’d get a normal private show for.

Talk About Her Preferences

This doesn’t mean asking her about her fantasies: it’s easy for questions like that to accidentally tiptoe over the line into “creepy.” Instead, it means being willing to negotiate based on what she likes and what she’s comfortable with. You don’t have to lay out your whole request all up front. Instead, be general about the kind of scene you want, and ask if she’s done something like that before and if she’d be interested. Then, tailor your request to what she says about her comfort level. Is she totally casual and OK with the idea? Then go for it! If she’s more unsure, you might want to ease her into it by toning things down to begin with.

There’s More Fish in the Sea

Remember, talking about this with a cam girl you like isn’t the same as talking about it with a girlfriend. She’s not the only cam girl out there, and she’s not the only one who fits your preferences, either. The stakes are low for you. Sure, she might say no (say you want a leather scene and she doesn’t own any leather gear, for example.) If she says no politely, don’t worry about it. You can find another girl who will say yes. If she’s rude about your fetishes, then she’s the one who just lost a good customer. You didn’t lose anything at all, because a scene with a cam girl who has hangups about your fetish is going to be a bad scene anyway.

By keeping in mind that you won’t lose anything if she says no, you put yourself in a better bargaining position. She won’t be able to get you to pay more than you’re willing to, because you can be the one to say no if she overcharges. And if you don’t sound desperate, she’s more likely to say yes.

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